Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink by Midori

Author:Midori
Language: eng
Format: azw3, epub
ISBN: 9781938884023
Publisher: Daedalus Publishing
Published: 2013-06-18T16:00:00+00:00

How to Look Cool

While Hanging with Hardcore Perverts

Welcome to Sodom, Dorothy! You’re not in Kansas anymore.

This is your chance to go to a kinky club, a SM dungeon or a fetish fete. Contrary to popular fantasy, however, it’s a world that has its own code of conduct. Screw it up and not only will you not get to screw, but also you’ll get bounced out of the door and blacklisted by the bouncer or organizer.

Here are some tips to help you get in the door, be cool and maximize your cruising potential.

First, you want to find out what the expected dress code for each part of the wild weekend is. At fetish nightclubs you can wear outrageous clothes but usually the naughty bits need to be covered. At a dungeon play party where it’s mainly about SM play, you can usually, but not always, let it all hang out. If there are SM workshops, then you can dress more casually. You don’t have to drop a fortune on new duds, but the more you adhere to the dress code, the more likely you’ll be greeted as part of fellow freakdom. Dress to fit in and more people will want to have fun with you. Dress like a tourist gawker and you’ll be ignored.

Second, never touch anyone or anything without the person’s (or the item’s owner’s) explicit consent. Yes, that hot stranger, the babe with the ass and tits hanging out, suspended from the ceiling like a ripe piece of fruit ready for the picking may look touchable and inviting. Don’t touch! She’s not your date or your slave. She didn’t agree to play with you, she’s only consented to being voyeured by others. Uninvited touch is the fastest way to get 86-ed from the club.

Third, meet lots of new people, introduce yourself with a smile and explain that it’s your first time. Veteran kinksters just love to show enthusiastic, polite newbies around. You’ll get lots of insider information from them such as where the private parties are. Sexual community locals love to help an honest “virgin” but really dislike dealing with “posers” who pretend to know things when they don’t.

Fourth, don’t chat loudly in dungeons and sex parties. It’s distracting and considered rude to talk in a dungeon play space or sexual arenas. Remember not to make negative comments about other people’s scenes or encounters regardless of how scary or creepy they may be to you. You think an enema’s gross? You’re scared of a double penetration suspension scene? Hey, you may be doing that very thing a few months from now. I’ve heard it said that in the SM scene “I’ll never...” means about six months!

Lastly, if you don’t know how a local event or group does things, ask the organizers for their advice. They’ll be helpful, as they want you to have a good time too!

Looking for Kink Clubs?

For a thorough listing in each state and major cities in the USA see www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html and the Leather Journal Web site at www.

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